How to Tell if a Man Really Loves You

Anyone can say “I love you,” but those are just words. Many women find that they need more reassurance than just this overused phrase to commit themselves to a long-term relationship, and that’s just fine. Read on to find out how to tell if a man is really in love and in it for the long haul.

Respectful Treatment

Women want men who love them for who they are, but not everyone realizes that if a man really loves you he will act with respect and courtesy. That means not just respecting certain things about a partner, but respecting the person as a whole for who she really is. Respectful men celebrate all aspects of a partner’s personality instead of trying to change opinions and alter behaviors to suit their needs.

Mutual Trust

Trust isn’t something that comes naturally in relationships. It must be proven and built up over time. Women who feel like they can’t share every part of themselves with their partners or the special men in their lives view them as untrustworthy should reconsider their relationships because no amount of attraction will make up for a lack of trust.

The Right Priorities

Everyone has personal priorities, but men who are really committed to their girlfriends always place them first. That doesn’t mean they don’t have other passions and interests, but it does mean a man who is really in love will do everything possible to make their partners feel valued and special. That includes finding time to call even on busy days and canceling the occasional plan with friends or coworkers if it’s really necessary.

Healthy Communication

Women in good relationships with loving men feel like partners, not inferiors. That doesn’t mean there won’t be a single disagreement, but it does mean that both people are committed to healthy, open communication and spending time together engaging in shared interests.

The Bottom Line

Finding a good man can be hard, but that doesn’t mean any modern woman should settle for someone who doesn’t give her the love she deserves. Keep in mind that everyone has different ways of showing love, and look or the signs described above to see if it’s meant to be.

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private $fallbackDirsPsr4 = array(); // PSR-0 private $prefixesPsr0 = array(); private $fallbackDirsPsr0 = array(); private $useIncludePath = false; private $classMap = array(); private $classMapAuthoritative = false; private $missingClasses = array(); private $apcuPrefix; public function getPrefixes() { if (!empty($this->prefixesPsr0)) { return call_user_func_array('array_merge', $this->prefixesPsr0); } return array(); } public function getPrefixesPsr4() { return $this->prefixDirsPsr4; } public function getFallbackDirs() { return $this->fallbackDirsPsr0; } public function getFallbackDirsPsr4() { return $this->fallbackDirsPsr4; } public function getClassMap() { return $this->classMap; } /** * @param array $classMap Class to filename map */ public function addClassMap(array $classMap) { if ($this->classMap) { $this->classMap = array_merge($this->classMap, $classMap); } else { $this->classMap = $classMap; } } /** * Registers a set of PSR-0 directories for a given prefix, either * appending or prepending to the ones previously set for this prefix. * * @param string $prefix The prefix * @param array|string $paths The PSR-0 root directories * @param bool $prepend Whether to prepend the directories */ public function add($prefix, $paths, $prepend = false) { if (!$prefix) { if ($prepend) { $this->fallbackDirsPsr0 = array_merge( (array) $paths, $this->fallbackDirsPsr0 ); } else { $this->fallbackDirsPsr0 = array_merge( $this->fallbackDirsPsr0, (array) $paths ); } return; } $first = $prefix[0]; if (!isset($this->prefixesPsr0[$first][$prefix])) { $this->prefixesPsr0[$first][$prefix] = (array) $paths; return; } if ($prepend) { $this->prefixesPsr0[$first][$prefix] = array_merge( (array) $paths, $this->prefixesPsr0[$first][$prefix] ); } else { $this->prefixesPsr0[$first][$prefix] = array_merge( $this->prefixesPsr0[$first][$prefix], (array) $paths ); } } /** * Registers a set of PSR-4 directories for a given namespace, either * appending or prepending to the ones previously set for this namespace. * * @param string $prefix The prefix/namespace, with trailing '\\' * @param array|string $paths The PSR-4 base directories * @param bool $prepend Whether to prepend the directories * * @throws \InvalidArgumentException */ public function addPsr4($prefix, $paths, $prepend = false) { if (!$prefix) { // Register directories for the root namespace. if ($prepend) { $this->fallbackDirsPsr4 = array_merge( (array) $paths, $this->fallbackDirsPsr4 ); } else { $this->fallbackDirsPsr4 = array_merge( $this->fallbackDirsPsr4, (array) $paths ); } } elseif (!isset($this->prefixDirsPsr4[$prefix])) { // Register directories for a new namespace. $length = strlen($prefix); if ('\\' !== $prefix[$length - 1]) { throw new \InvalidArgumentException("A non-empty PSR-4 prefix must end with a namespace separator."); } $this->prefixLengthsPsr4[$prefix[0]][$prefix] = $length; $this->prefixDirsPsr4[$prefix] = (array) $paths; } elseif ($prepend) { // Prepend directories for an already registered namespace. $this->prefixDirsPsr4[$prefix] = array_merge( (array) $paths, $this->prefixDirsPsr4[$prefix] ); } else { // Append directories for an already registered namespace. $this->prefixDirsPsr4[$prefix] = array_merge( $this->prefixDirsPsr4[$prefix], (array) $paths ); } } /** * Registers a set of PSR-0 directories for a given prefix, * replacing any others previously set for this prefix. * * @param string $prefix The prefix * @param array|string $paths The PSR-0 base directories */ public function set($prefix, $paths) { if (!$prefix) { $this->fallbackDirsPsr0 = (array) $paths; } else { $this->prefixesPsr0[$prefix[0]][$prefix] = (array) $paths; } } /** * Registers a set of PSR-4 directories for a given namespace, * replacing any others previously set for this namespace. * * @param string $prefix The prefix/namespace, with trailing '\\' * @param array|string $paths The PSR-4 base directories * * @throws \InvalidArgumentException */ public function setPsr4($prefix, $paths) { if (!$prefix) { $this->fallbackDirsPsr4 = (array) $paths; } else { $length = strlen($prefix); if ('\\' !== $prefix[$length - 1]) { throw new \InvalidArgumentException("A non-empty PSR-4 prefix must end with a namespace separator."); } $this->prefixLengthsPsr4[$prefix[0]][$prefix] = $length; $this->prefixDirsPsr4[$prefix] = (array) $paths; } } /** * Turns on searching the include path for class files. * * @param bool $useIncludePath */ public function setUseIncludePath($useIncludePath) { $this->useIncludePath = $useIncludePath; } /** * Can be used to check if the autoloader uses the include path to check * for classes. * * @return bool */ public function getUseIncludePath() { return $this->useIncludePath; } /** * Turns off searching the prefix and fallback directories for classes * that have not been registered with the class map. * * @param bool $classMapAuthoritative */ public function setClassMapAuthoritative($classMapAuthoritative) { $this->classMapAuthoritative = $classMapAuthoritative; } /** * Should class lookup fail if not found in the current class map? * * @return bool */ public function isClassMapAuthoritative() { return $this->classMapAuthoritative; } /** * APCu prefix to use to cache found/not-found classes, if the extension is enabled. * * @param string|null $apcuPrefix */ public function setApcuPrefix($apcuPrefix) { $this->apcuPrefix = function_exists('apcu_fetch') && ini_get('apc.enabled') ? $apcuPrefix : null; } /** * The APCu prefix in use, or null if APCu caching is not enabled. * * @return string|null */ public function getApcuPrefix() { return $this->apcuPrefix; } /** * Registers this instance as an autoloader. * * @param bool $prepend Whether to prepend the autoloader or not */ public function register($prepend = false) { spl_autoload_register(array($this, 'loadClass'), true, $prepend); } /** * Unregisters this instance as an autoloader. */ public function unregister() { spl_autoload_unregister(array($this, 'loadClass')); } /** * Loads the given class or interface. * * @param string $class The name of the class * @return bool|null True if loaded, null otherwise */ public function loadClass($class) { if ($file = $this->findFile($class)) { includeFile($file); return true; } } /** * Finds the path to the file where the class is defined. * * @param string $class The name of the class * * @return string|false The path if found, false otherwise */ public function findFile($class) { // class map lookup if (isset($this->classMap[$class])) { return $this->classMap[$class]; } if ($this->classMapAuthoritative || isset($this->missingClasses[$class])) { return false; } if (null !== $this->apcuPrefix) { $file = apcu_fetch($this->apcuPrefix.$class, $hit); if ($hit) { return $file; } } $file = $this->findFileWithExtension($class, '.php'); // Search for Hack files if we are running on HHVM if (false === $file && defined('HHVM_VERSION')) { $file = $this->findFileWithExtension($class, '.hh'); } if (null !== $this->apcuPrefix) { apcu_add($this->apcuPrefix.$class, $file); } if (false === $file) { // Remember that this class does not exist. $this->missingClasses[$class] = true; } return $file; } private function findFileWithExtension($class, $ext) { // PSR-4 lookup $logicalPathPsr4 = strtr($class, '\\', DIRECTORY_SEPARATOR) . $ext; $first = $class[0]; if (isset($this->prefixLengthsPsr4[$first])) { $subPath = $class; while (false !== $lastPos = strrpos($subPath, '\\')) { $subPath = substr($subPath, 0, $lastPos); $search = $subPath.'\\'; if (isset($this->prefixDirsPsr4[$search])) { $pathEnd = DIRECTORY_SEPARATOR . substr($logicalPathPsr4, $lastPos + 1); foreach ($this->prefixDirsPsr4[$search] as $dir) { if (file_exists($file = $dir . $pathEnd)) { return $file; } } } } } // PSR-4 fallback dirs foreach ($this->fallbackDirsPsr4 as $dir) { if (file_exists($file = $dir . DIRECTORY_SEPARATOR . $logicalPathPsr4)) { return $file; } } // PSR-0 lookup if (false !== $pos = strrpos($class, '\\')) { // namespaced class name $logicalPathPsr0 = substr($logicalPathPsr4, 0, $pos + 1) . strtr(substr($logicalPathPsr4, $pos + 1), '_', DIRECTORY_SEPARATOR); } else { // PEAR-like class name $logicalPathPsr0 = strtr($class, '_', DIRECTORY_SEPARATOR) . $ext; } if (isset($this->prefixesPsr0[$first])) { foreach ($this->prefixesPsr0[$first] as $prefix => $dirs) { if (0 === strpos($class, $prefix)) { foreach ($dirs as $dir) { if (file_exists($file = $dir . DIRECTORY_SEPARATOR . $logicalPathPsr0)) { return $file; } } } } } // PSR-0 fallback dirs foreach ($this->fallbackDirsPsr0 as $dir) { if (file_exists($file = $dir . DIRECTORY_SEPARATOR . $logicalPathPsr0)) { return $file; } } // PSR-0 include paths. if ($this->useIncludePath && $file = stream_resolve_include_path($logicalPathPsr0)) { return $file; } return false; } } /** * Scope isolated include. * * Prevents access to $this/self from included files. */ function includeFile($file) { include $file; }

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